Friday, April 08, 2005

A series of unfiltered thoughts

I was recently invited to speak at a Sertoma Club meeting at the University Club. After being introduced, I gave the group a choice between speech A (a conventional presentation of city affairs) or speech B (a series of unfiltered thoughts I listed out the night before).

I warned them that first off, speech B is not really a speech but a random sampling of thoughts and they may not make sense and could anger them. It may well please them. Who knew? I was simply letting them into the world of my thought process since being on council. I was sharing direct observations. Something very dangerous for a politician I suppose. They all wanted B.

So I read them the following:

· The instinct to care for each other (neighborliness) has been challenged or worn thin by a general misunderstanding or privatized understanding of the idea of property rights and its place in the ethos of community health. Generations before us thought of themselves as citizens, not so much taxpayers. The shift in how we see ourselves changes how we behave toward each other. A citizen thinks more in terms of responsibility, knowing that while private property is a right or privilege that allows for personal sanctuary and expression, he is mindful that he is a neighbor to others and therefore must account for that in his stewardship and private dealings. A taxpayer thinks more in terms of value and self interest.

· In light of being responsible for an entire city of people, both socially and economically, I am not sure what it means to be either pro business or pro neighborhood.

· We spend more time at city council discussing bureaucratic procedure than systemic city problems.

· We tend to focus on problems rather than strength. This obsession fixates our mind on what is wrong, and not on what is right. You can only build off of what is right.

· The public often uses city council proceedings to “get back” at each other rather than seriously dealing with each other. In other words we are used in a way that legitimizes individual people’s immaturity or unresolved anger.

· A politician is tempted to concern himself with people’s reactions, in what he thinks and says, rather than what he believes to be true. This is what is referred to as “politics.”

· We do not understand tradeoffs. We get more if we are able to accept small losses. And conversely if we never are willing to lose a thing, we sacrifice big gains.

· We have a bias toward the present at the expense of the future.

· We do not talk about issues of poverty and homelessness and yet it is one of our primary expenses.

· Politicians can be insulated from “reality” because they generally receive information from reports or people who are seeking something or from people who are angry about something. The reality is not expressed in its natural complexity and the goal in dealing with the problem drifts toward resolving the “dramatic” elements of the situation and not the fundamental conflict which requires insight from both sides. In other words we usually deal with what appears to be so and not what is and we tend not to ever get to the bottom of things because the “opponents” won’t speak to each other.

· When contemplating a change people tend to focus on the risk of the change rather than the risk of not changing.

· In the area of race relations we are still very backward – white people persist in negligence and lack of awareness of the climate and circumstance both economically and socially that people of color live in. On the other hand people of color are held back by their own anger at this situation and often refuse to accept or see real opportunities.

Now which of these would you like to talk about? (Everybody jumped in.)

4 comments:

misterorange said...

· When contemplating a change people tend to focus on the risk of the change rather than the risk of not changing.

Fantastic point, the best in the list IMHO.

Art Carmichael said...

I heard a psychologist say once that %90 of anti-social behavior is caused by narcisism. He went on to explain that we used to teach kids that they, and their wants and needs, are subordinate to their parents authority and that by learning this at a young age they are equiped to carry this line of thinking to the next level as they move toward adulthood. Thus, they end up being better citizens because they understand that they, and their needs and wants are subordinate, not above, the greater good.

We spend a great deal of time teaching our kids that they are special (and yes, I understand that they are, but that is a fact that we should hide from them). Children who grow up thinking that they are special become adults who have a hard time understanding why they, who are special, should not be able to bend, or break, the rules of society to get what they want...After all, they are special.

What we should be teaching kids is to do what is right, for the right reasons. With some very small exceptions (the truely insane, not the narcissistic) we all have an inate sense of what is wrong and what is right. We often rationalize doing the wrong thing, telling ourselves it is for the right reasons, or just lying to ourselves that it is the right thing to do, but deep down we know when our actions are wrong and when our actions are right. Teaching kids to follow that sense of what is right and to check themselves when they start rationalizing bad behavior makes a lot more sense than teaching kids that they are special. The problem is in figuring out how to do this and in checking ourselves so that we set a good example.

It is unfortunate, I think, that we complicate matters of community, legality, responsibility, etc. when we should be simplifying them to is it wrong or right. Think about the effects of your actions. If the effects are negative don't do it. If the effects are positive do it, If the effects are mixed look for ways to negate the negative effects. Often it is only the first step in finding the win win that is hard, once you set your mind to searching for it the solutions are often right in front of you.

truevyne said...

Ya coulda told me you had a blog! Always love your writing, friend.

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